Pinned Welcome — what brought you here?

This forum is for the conversations that don't fit anywhere else. Whether you're three years past the papers or still wondering whether to file, introduce yourself in a sentence or two and tell us what you're hoping to find here. We'll keep this thread pinned so new members can land somewhere friendly.

If you're reading this and not sure whether your story belongs — it does. Reply here or start your own thread. We'll be around to keep the space safe.

Hi all. Six weeks into separation, still wondering whether to file. Glad this place exists.

Coming up on a year now. The first weeks were the worst. Take care of yourselves, drink water, sleep when you can.