Reconciling my faith with getting divorced

Practical tip: open your own bank account today, even with $20 in it. You will thank yourself. One year out and I promise there is a version of you on the other side of this who is okay.

went through this exact wrestling match. what helped was finding writers within my own tradition who'd thought hard about divorce — turns out the tradition is roomier than the loudest voices claim. happy to share names if you want.

On the practical side, since faith and law sometimes tangle here: a religious divorce and a legal one are separate processes in Canada, and you may need both. Your officiant and your lawyer each handle their own piece. General information only.